How to impress a girl on chat | Whatsapp or facebook stranger

How to impress a girl on chats of Whatsapp or Facebook who is stranger to you. If you’re a beginner and struggling with girls and want to know how to talk and impress girls then this article is for you.

I know you are desperate to know, how this works? How guys make girls mad for them? How will you be able to chat with the girls?

I am going to share some interesting psychological tricks with you.

At times, after seeing a girl, it comes to your mind that you should talk to this girl; she has to be in my friends' list. We search that girl on social media and also get connected to her profile. Now comes the main part when we have to start a chat with her.

It happens to us many times while sending a message to a girl, we get very nervous, the fact is there is no big deal in this, you just have to show a bit of confidence.

Social Profiles

We must maintain our Facebook and Instagram profiles or if you prefer Snapchat or WhatsApp. Don’t try to be a stud if you’re not, just be yourself. Most of us are average then be average accept it.

Fill the details in events section in profile and try to show to the real ones only. Fill the details if you like any book, music, movie or other things which makes your profile lively.

Post some creative things or funny stuff or whatever you like, it could be your passion, deep thinking, motivational quotes. It makes your personality visible because what we like, content related to we post or share on our timeline.

Click some good pictures with your friends while doing crazy stuff can do wonders. If the girl spy your profile later and she sees that picture she will get attract from the joy that picture depicts. My suggestion would be to try to bundle a good and positive attitude towards life.

It is not necessary to be in your profile picture. You can upload anything which shows creativity and your passion. But a smiling face on your profile picture is best.

Initiating 

Initiating chat with a girl is a tough task for most of us, but not on social media boys just send hi, hello to many girls but believe me it is the most important part of the conversation you have to be a bit creative in this. 

As a proverb says first impression is the last impression. You can start the chat with a simple hello or you can say “can I say hello to the busiest girl of this planet?” Something like this convinces the girl to reply to your message.

If the girl knows you by face, but you guys never chat before then you should ask for something related to your studies, like notes, some campaigns, college fest events etc. This will allow you to start a conversation with her and if the reason sounds genuine that she will reply.

Avoid sending heart emoticons and love messages in starting, some folks send beautiful pictures and start flirting. You don’t have to be quick in such things.

Don’t Rush let the ball rolls

When your chat starts, one thing you should be kept in mind that you should not give a quick message reply, give her time to react to understand your point.

I give you a hint how can you indulge her in talking, you can talk about one of her picture, stories or status she has posted. You can confess “I saw your profile or status, and I found that picture is taken on the outskirts of the city, Isn’t?” You may also ask her how was your day or what do you do, etc.

Another great trick called “parroting” you can use while talking when you don’t have words. Whatever she writes, you reply to her with the three meaningful words of her sentence, with related emoticons.

She: I went to Clark Shiraz last night.

You: Oh! Clark Shiraz.

She: Yeah, birthday party of family friends.

You: Birthdays with friends, fun isn’t?

She: yes completely, last year we went to the water park on my birthday.

Like this, you can continue talking without breaks.

Short message but meaningful

Do not write long messages, try conveying your meaning shortly and explicitly raise the next point of further messages so that the girl keeps taking interest in talking further. It should not be in dirty double meaning cheap PJs.

Also, try using slangs of the latest words and acronyms like,

• LMFAO - Laughing my freaking *a* off.
• NVM - Never mind.
• ROFL - Rolling on the floor laughing.
• STFU - Shut the *freak* up.
• LMK- Let me know.
• LOL – Laugh out loud.

Engage her from Passion 

Talk about passion if it’s hers or yours motivate the atmosphere. Before talking about her passion, check out her profile and Google it. This won’t make you completely blank about the topic and smoothens the conversation.

Flirting 

Flirting should be done in a way it sounds real, if you’re commenting good lines on her pictures continuously, she will not take you seriously. Keep in mind, flirt is the next level thing of your friendship, so go slow and hit the hammer only when iron turns red.

Once in a while, you say something like “Really hard to ignore you in black.”

Try not to available every time 

Do not always online to give her a reply, let her wait for some time then only she will miss you. If you stepped level one then this will affect her. Make her crave more for you by not replying the whole day, and test her if she is into you or not.

This will work only if you make her addict to you. You don’t have to talk day and night for this but whatever time you guys are talking just make it worth having chat so she will think about you after the chat.

Make her feel special 

Once you reach another step forward, you make her feel special with your words and she will start falling for you. This way you can also show your respect for her and how loving and caring your nature is. Try talking to her taking her name as much as possible and this makes girls feel good and she will take more interest in talking to you.  

Call her with a nickname 

When she feels comfortable talking to you, then start calling her with some nicknames that she like, it will make her feel special and it works with almost every girl because girls love pampering and with cute addressing words they start getting the feel of it.  

Chat at the right time 

The best time to talk is in the night, you cannot talk on a busy schedule all day, you can talk freely at night and at that time you will get full attention. But don’t be like I’m here in the night, let her talk firstly sometimes.

Use emoticons

You can use emoticons to convey your feeling, only text looks dull, serious and misinterprets the meaning of it sometimes. Instead of writing good night, you can use yawning emoticon which expresses the meaning more creatively.

These small changes and efforts make your conversation and friendship with stranger girls last. Greet the good morning messages with a sun emoticon. Shuffle your usual greet and don’t make the girl guess you. Make her amaze with new things new lines images, status and posts.

Girls like Humor 

Don’t hesitate in showing your humorous side to her, because girls like humour and 8 out of 10 girls can be easily flattered with funny jokes. Humour makes people happy and this is everyone wants.

Sometimes you can also try something naughty in the middle of conversations and see her reaction. Is she paying attention to it? If she is not interested yet, then keep your borderline maintained. Believe me Humor and diversity in conversation makes you her favourite.

Teasing is fun 

You can also tease her in the middle of chats so she will get mad on you, which will give you an opportunity to make her and come closer.

Voice/Video call 

If the girl has come closer and become comfortable with you then only you can ask her to move on a video call or ask her for a contact number, but I’d suggest you avoid this step and let the girl ask for a video call or contact number. Chatting is better than talking on a phone for the beginning as you get more time to think for a reply.

From the Author

If you’re in college and seeing this girl on a social platform. I’d suggest you approach directly. Girls like confidence so in case you go directly to her, your chances of getting success will be more. Best of Luck!